Tech Giants must do more to stop cyber-bullying
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4262456/Parents-banish-cyber-bullies-says-minister.html
So, what can be done about technology addiction among kids? The answer is simple. Read the book, Disconnected by yours truly!
Below is a an article I read this morning at DailyMail.com.
I decided to write about this topic because I discuss this in Chapter Six of my book, Disconnected. The chapter is titled: Parenting From a Distance. In the chapter I underscore that parents today spend just 3 ½ minutes per week in meaningful conversation with their children. Yes, I said “per week.” I not only write about this topic in the book, I also talk about it at length when I lecture.
The next time you go out to eat all you have to do is take a look around the restaurant. You will see that nearly every child in the restaurant is either staring at a smartphone or tablet, often for the entire length of their stay. And in most cases so are the parents. This is only one example of how families are being distanced from one another. Furthermore, few families have meals together at home on a regular bases and for those that do, many of them are using electronics simultaneously. All of the research shows that children who have dinner together with family most nights of the week have stronger mental and emotional health, do better in school and have better interpersonal relationships. They will also be less likely to become drug addicts and less likely to become sexually involved at an early age.
I often tell audience members at my lectures that I would love to put hidden cameras in homes across America because it would document for us how families no longer function as families anymore. A better description would be four individual’s living under the same roof all connected to some kind of a screen and disconnected from each other. The next time you attend one of your child’s sporting events look around and see how many parents are actually watching the game. You will notice many of them, not all, chronically checking their phones and missing their child perform. Ultimately, they are ‘missing the moment’. We need to be better examples for our children. We need to set rules for them and for ourselves. And, we need to communicate with them in a real way, a lot.
Here are some tips that will help you re-connect with your children, as well as your spouse.
Five Tips To Reconnect With Your Children
A new study shows that Tinder may be affecting your self-esteem.
http://www.wcvb.com/article/tinder-may-be-killing-your-self-esteem-study-shows/8736223
Here is a brief clip from Dr. Phil show about the thirteen-year-old girl who became “famous” from her comments on the show that went viral on social media. Dr. Phil explains that there is a big difference between fame and infamy.
It is clear why this girl is so troubled. Let’s just say, “the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.” Just listen to the mom in the clip. And, where is the dad?
https://www.yahoo.com/tv/cash-me-ousside-girl-tells-dr-phil-that-she-made-him-famous-222946807.html
This is a great article written in The Bergen Record, which is a local newspaper in New Jersey. The writer highlights how sending nude photo’s has become a normal part of teenage behavior even for those as young as thirteen. One of the questions the article asks is, “what should parents do.” To me the answer to this question is a simple one. Is it really “essential” that our children have these devices?
Do you know how to say, I’m sorry? If so, you are more emotionally intelligent than you think. If you’re one of those who can’t resist talking politics and have even gone as far as attacking others on social media, your saving grace can be broken down into two words – “I’m Sorry”. As a regular contributor for Fox news, here is a recent clip from a Fox & Friends segment I did explaining why apologizing is such an important attribute.